Many gay men are satisfied with “regular sex,” but most alpha males and subs have a deep seated urge to have incredible mind blowing orgasms. This list of five unusual but scientifically proven tips will give you amazing sex and make your climax feel like a magical volcano erupting within you.
#1 Complete the Circle
Sexual energy is stored in the body and is released into the atmosphere during sex. It enters the body through the mouth and comes out through the penis. Capture this energy and keep it circulating throughout the body by getting into the missionary position and kissing very deeply during sex. Push your tongues into each other’s mouths and lock lips to capture all the sexual energy. The greatest energy is released during orgasm. If you learn to move in sync as described below, you should be able to climax at the same time – this is the ultimate in sexual pleasure. For an even greater connection, look into each other’s eyes while you kiss to capture the energy from your eyes and mouth.
Sexual energy is part of your life force. This energy arises from the first or root chakra and the second or sacral chakra. … Each of the seven chakras connects through a spiraling energy channel that climbs up the body (kundalini). And this entire energy system is fueled by the base: the home of sexual energy.
#2 Learn to Move in Sync
Research shows that when people move in tandem, like when they are dancing, their heartbeat and breathing also synchronize. This synchronization helps people feel physically and spiritually connected. Gay men report that feeling this connection makes them have amazing sex and more intense orgasms.
Emilio Ferrer, a UC Davis psychology professor who has conducted a series of studies on couples in romantic relationships, found that couples connected to monitors measuring heart rates and respiration get their heart rate in sync, and they breathe in and out at the same intervals.
“We’ve seen a lot of research that one person in a relationship can experience what the other person is experiencing emotionally, but this study shows they also share experiences at a physiological level,” Ferrer said.
Stand in front of your partner and place your palms together. Reach your hands up to the ceiling and down to the floor. First one hand at a time and then both hands at the same time. Try to move around the room together. Then lie on the bed together and focus on touching each other with the same amount of pressure. Place your foreheads together, role to the right and then the left without breaking the connection between your foreheads.
This movement should get your mind and body in sync with each other and enable you to share more energy for amazing sex.
3# Talk Dirty
Independent research shows that most gay men rate the sexual performance, at least partially on their partner’s moans and words he says during sex. If a man tells a man how great he’s doing or how good he’s making him feel he will enjoy the sex more. Talking dirty during sex stimulates the ears. More importantly, it stimulates the brain, which is the biggest sex organ. Men report that hearing their parther say certain things increases the pleasure of the sex. Ask your partner what he likes to hear. Some people like dirty nasty words and others like soft and tender words. Once you learn your partner’s auditory “hot” spot, you can have foreplay anywhere you can hear each other, including phone sex.
Talking Dirty To See How My Boyfriend Reacts
#4 Exert Yourself Before Sex
Research suggests that exerting your body produces increased levels of testosterone in men and estrogen in women. It also releases cortisol, norepinephrine and adrenaline. These three chemicals are responsible for heightening the senses to the greatest physical level achievable. It does not take long for the body to begin to release these chemicals. About an hour before sex, do as many push-ups or leg bends as you can. Do them until you feel your muscles burn. After your body recovers, proceed with your normal sexual activity. Men will experience greater and longer erections and will have more sensitivity over the entire body, including the nipples, butt and prostate.
#5 Wear Cologne or Use Your Natural Smell
When most people think about sex they think about the sensation they experience with the skin. It’s important that we also think about sight, hearing and smell. Research suggests that cavemen and cave-woman selected whom to mate with based on the way they smelled. In modern society we don’t rely on smell in the same way but it is still a great turn on for many men.
Find out what smells your partner likes. It may be fresh, floral, spices, fruits, woods or musk. Be sure to use these smells to enhance the sexual atmosphere by wearing cologne, burning candles or using scented lubes.
Be mindful that many men are turned on by their partner’s natural smell. In a study reported by Psychology Today, women rate a man’s body odor pleasantness and sexiness based upon how much of their [genetic] profile is shared. Overall, women prefer those scents exuded by men whose [genetic] profiles varied the most from their own. Hence, any given man’s odor could be pleasingly alluring to one man, yet an offensive turnoff to another.
Odor is sensory stimulation of the olfactory membrane of the nose by a group of molecules. Certain body odors are connected to human sexual attraction. … The olfactory membrane plays a role in smelling and subconsciously assessing another human’s pheromones. It also affects the sexual attraction of insects and mammals.
Sexual Attraction and Smell
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