Anal sex between two men can be an amazing experience. But as we know, there are a lot of things that can “F” up the experience, especially if you’re a beginner or with a new partner. And the reality is that it’s not the bottom’s responsibility to make sure everything goes well – even if it’s a hookup after the bar. Instead, because our bodies are involved, and you could really do some damage, the responsibility falls on the top and the bottom.
Not Everyone Likes Anal Sex
Please remember that contrary to gay porn movies and the media, not all gay men like anal sex. Sex isn’t one-size fits all, and that applies to anal. Some people aren’t comfortable with the idea of anal penetration, or have tried it and found that it really isn’t for them. This should be common sense, but it’s worth repeating. Additionally, this shouldn’t be a deal breaker for a partner. To limit oneself to just a single flavor is to shut out a smorgasbord of new experiences.
The Science of Anal Sex
Anal sex, like any sex, is part science and part art. In other words, to have a good sexual experience, you need to know how the body works. We’ve talked to a lot of gay men and you would be very surprised at the percentage of men who don’t know what’s going on back there. They’re relying on outdated information or something they learned from porno movies. We want to set the record straight so you can increase the pleasure and decrease the discomfort.
Some of what you need to know is straight science. That is, you need to know how your body works, how to relax and how to clean your rectum. We’ve watched at a lot of YouTube videos and believe that the following...
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Well this 72 grandpa has bttm for past 60 years and agrees that in addition to lube that fingers are great for fore play to start
It gave me a better insight into making anal more enjoyable
Awesome site for newbie.
So what about if you have a boyfriend that is quite in Dowd we want to use a condom we have not done anal sex because he’s too big the problem is he gets the condom on I haven’t bottom in a while so it’s hard to come get it then secondly his dick sometimes loses his heart on so then we have to try to get it back up again and do you have any suggestions
A few great tips from a guy who only bottoms for decades now:
1 – Play to loosen up. Don’t just go straight for the pounding. He can and should use fingers to play with your hole. Let him gently work in one, then two, then three, then four fingers.
2 – When it comes to the actual act, take it slow. Let him push in a little, pull out, assess lube, and repeat, going a little further each time. Breathe deep and remain relaxed.
3 – Trouble staying hard can be related to his fear of hurting you. Verbal feedback as he helps you relax can assist with that, that you’re enjoying it, that it doesn’t hurt. Don’t draw attention to his issue, but let him work through it with you
Yeah a couple of word ones….endowed and hard on ?
Please watch your phrasing. In the second paragraph, “all gay men don’t like anal sex”(Are you kidding?) should read “NOT all gay men like anal sex”. Of course we KNOW what you mean, but still….Apart from that, well done.
Thank you for the grammar check. Please let us know if there is anything else we can do.