Category Archives: Reader Questions

Reader Question: Black Boyfriend Wants To Post Me On Social Media

He says that's just another way of saying I'm ashamed of us. Am I being [...]

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Reader Question: Should I Go Home for the Fourth

I've been with my boyfriend for three years, but my parents asked me not to [...]

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Reader Question: My Boyfriend Lost Everyone When He Came Out… and Now I’m All He Has

I don't want to sound selfish. But I'm beginning to feel more like his entire [...]

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Reader Question: Is Dog Sleeping In Bed Deal Breaker?

I'm realizing I really don't like it. It's crowded, I don't think it's very sanitary, [...]

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Reader Question: Was The ABS Better Than Grindr

People who never experienced that era tend to think of adult bookstores as nothing more [...]

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Reader Question: Best Dating App for LTR

It seems like so much of gay dating revolves around appearance, instant chemistry, and sexual [...]

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Is Cruising Still Worth the Risk?

Is cruising still a meaningful part of gay culture, or has technology changed the game [...]

Is An “Open” Relationship Real?

He said he want to fuck his ex from time to time to get that [...]

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When My Church Found Out I’m Gay

The problem is that while my church says it "welcomes everyone," it also teaches that [...]

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Reader Question: My Boyfriend Dumped Me After I Lost 50 Pounds. Now He Wants Me Back.

If someone dumps you, starts dating someone else, and only comes back after that relationship [...]

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Reader Question: Is Dating Impossible If You Support Trump?

A gay man says dating has become harder because he supports Trump. Should political beliefs [...]

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Reader Question: The Gay Bar Is Dying. Is That a Problem or Progress?

Twenty years ago, gay bars were where people met friends, found dates. Today, most guys [...]

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Reader Question: Is Humiliation Ever Acceptable in a Relationship?

He says his biggest turn-on is making me submit to him in front of other [...]

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I Found the Perfect Man… Then I Saw His Penis. Am I Shallow for Losing Interest?

The second we got back to my apartment, we were all over each other. We [...]

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Am I Wrong for Not Wanting to Date Bisexual Men?

I've dated a few bisexual men and every relationship ended with them eventually deciding they [...]

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Reader Question: What To Do When Your Lover Bullies You?

My boyfriend is 10 years younger than me—and if I'm being honest, he's way out [...]

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