Couples with large age gaps have some sort of assumptions that are automatic whenever people look at them or think about them. If it’s a young man and an older woman, she’s a cougar. If its an older man with a younger woman, she’s a gold digger and he’s her sugar daddy. If it’s two gay men people assume a sissy-boy/daddy relationship. With lesbians, I have no idea, but I’m sure there are some untoward implications.
Because of that, I tried to stick with dating people in my age range once I turned 40. As a gay man, there are expectations when you try to get into a relationship with a younger guy. Casual sex is something else entirely, though. Shy young virgins often turn to older men to pop their cherries, since they tend to be gentler. I don’t mind being gentle, so I have deflowered a handful of freshly legal boys. That’s not the extent of it. In the age of Tinder and Grindr, it’s not that difficult to get laid when the need arises. Finding love and commitment is a different story.
That’s probably why I sort of stopped dating recently. As a 42-year-old man, it seemed too late to start looking for a life partner. I wasn’t bitter about that, I just sort of accepted it. I had a comfortable job, working as a chef at a quasi-fancy restaurant in Atlanta, friends I could turn to, and a sexual drive not nearly what it used to be. Bachelorhood seemed like the logical conclusion.
The thing is, attraction is not logical. It’s not something controllable. It just happens, and leaving you to deal with the consequences. I think the term crush was invented because you just know that it’s stronger than you.
Lance caught my attention the first day he started working here....
⭐ Join 50,000+ Readers🔒 Unlock the Full Story & Support the Blog
After 6 years of free stories, we are moving to an All-Access Pass model to keep the site 100% ad-free and deliver higher quality content, better proofreading, and faster releases.
Your 30-Day Pass Includes:
- ✓ Unlimited Access: Read every single article and story for 30 days.
- ✓ Higher Quality: More erotic content with better character development.
- ✓ Better Proofreading: Polished text and more detailed sex scenes.
- ✓ More Erections: Exactly what you came here for.
Special Launch Discount: $9.95 $4.95 / 30 Days
Unlock Full Access Now ($4.95)⚡ Instant activation • Secure SSL checkout
I’m 56 and he is 27. We met nearly 3 years ago and have been inseparable since we met. I sometimes still check to see if I am still alive, or not in a coma, because I can’t believe someone his age, and someone as hot as he is would want me. 4-1/2 years ago my husband of 17 years passed away suddenly. It really was a shock and was a very difficult time for me. I made up my mind that I was done with relationships; mainly because I also lost my first partner of 8 years to AIDS back in 1995. I figured folks would start thinking I’m bad luck or something. My current relationship happened when I wasn’t even looking, which I think is the best way for it to happen. Neither one of us cares at all about the age difference and most of our friends are cool with it as well. You just never know when you might fall in love, and when it does, you just need to let it happen!
I am 76 amd my partner is 53 . Age is no a problem. Love is in the heart.
My husband is 30 and I’m 60. We been together for 10 years and just celebrate our 4th anniversary June 20th. Were two peas in a pod. As we spend each day together our love for one another only grows stronger. The sex is great but only a small part of our love for each other.
I’ve always loved DADS! Guys that are much older than me, I’ve always wanted to care for a man 19,20 years older than me. Especially cowboys, blue collar guys,.Beautiful!! Otherwise very cool story!!
mmmmmmmmmm i want lance= he sounds hot
I agree a very nice story. I think they will be very happy together for a long time.
Nice story. I’m 67, my husband is 45. . I can relate. We’ve been together 10 years, married for 6. Age is just a number, and no matter what Carl may think, I’m the luckiest man in the world. By the way, who really is the lucky one is the only thing we argue about.
I love this too. I suspect this is by the same author that wrote, “Please Wait for Me,” and “2 Christian Boys Fall in Love.” As well as others in here. If you haven’t read them yet, they are well written and equally delightful!
I am 65. My partner is 30. I could not imagine a better relationship
I love how heart warming this story was ❤️